When you are planning your wedding it can sometimes feel like your wishes can become second to everyone else’s. You might have your heart set on daisies while your mother is pushing for roses. Maybe you love brown and pink for your bridesmaids dresses, but your maid of honor is pushing for red. This article should help give you some tips for making sure your wedding is YOUR day.
When you are planning to tie the knot, pick your bridesmaids in advance. This will help you to take away a lot of the pressure that you will face when you are getting married. Make sure that your picks are very personal to you and are key people in your life.
If you fear that people won’t want to give you cash wedding gifts as they don’t have a lot of money to give, include a “cash box” at the door to your reception. Guests are asked in the wedding invitations to bring their gift in an unmarked envelope, allow them to place it in the box anonymously and reducing any guilt they might feel.
On the day of the wedding, send a nice text to your groom or bride to tell them that you love them, and they are the most important person in your life. This will help them feel reassured that they are making the right decision and will help to relieve their stress.
It is good etiquette to hold your champagne glass by the stem and not the bowl so you don’t heat up the liquid inside. You should always have a glass of champagne available to you during your reception so that you’re totally prepared whenever someone is ready to toast you.
When planning a destination wedding you should find out how many people are willing to attend. You may think only a few can afford to get there, but it might turn out that most of your family has money put away for a vacation and they’d like to use your wedding as the venue!
Put your schedule of events online, so that all guests can access it at any time. Inform people of events, like rehearsals, that they are required to attend, so they will be where they are supposed to be at the scheduled time.
If this is your first wedding and the costs just keep adding up, you should recycle some items. For example, can the bride wear her mother’s wedding gown with a few alterations? Can the engagement ring be a family heirloom instead of buying new? In most cases these items will have more meaning than a new item, you will be glad you chose to recycle.
If your country or state will not let you get married because of your sexual orientation, you should look into getting married abroad or into another state. You can easily find support groups that will help you find the right place to get married, and advise you in the process of getting a marriage license.
Plan an Eco-friendly wedding that your guests will appreciate. Have fewer guests to lessen consumption and use plants instead of cut flowers on the tables. Wear a second-hand wedding dress and forget about balloons or confetti. Use real glass or china for dining and there won’t be any reason to worry about buying recyclable products.
As stated at the beginning of the article, while planning for your wedding, sometimes your wishes are met with resistance from loved ones. Although they mean well, it is important to remember that this is YOUR wedding day. Hopefully this article has given you some great tips for tactfully dealing with everyone’s input, while keeping your own wishes first.